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Re: Stuck between worlds, hoping I never have to choose.

Nelson/Roberto — Mon, 27 Feb 2012 15:55:34 -0000

Mary,

Thanks so much. Looking forward to seeing you again next time I'm panama!

Nelson

Re: Stuck between worlds, hoping I never have to choose.

Mary — Thu, 23 Feb 2012 20:48:05 -0000

You have two names yes and one very large family. You've been blessed in that YOU can be the bridge between the two worlds.

Think of all the family you have to help and guide you, to enrich your life. I see this as wonderful!

We all have to make decisions in life, some easy, some not. After meeting you and Luis yesterday, hearing your story, I am certain you will find a way to make that bridge work!

It is normal to miss those you love and even sometimes to feel torn, no matter where you live. There is no need for you to "choose" between your worlds.

Life has a good plan for you. Watch and see!

Mary

Re: The book has been released

Derek — Mon, 28 Nov 2011 14:54:49 -0000

Nelson,

Thanks for writing back, I am indeed enjoying the book and just admire how you handled the whole situation and find it amazing how your adoptive family and biological family have blended into one. I feel that is how it should be and Ihjope I can share a story of my own one day. Take care- Derek

Re: The book has been released

Derek — Mon, 28 Nov 2011 14:40:06 -0000

Growing up in western Mass. I would dream and think about other adoptees such as myself and what their stories might be like. I hope that one day I will have a story of my own that I can share as well. I just want to say once again, that your book is so inspiring. -Derek

Re: Thank You!!

Ron Cormier — Sun, 27 Nov 2011 21:48:24 -0000

Great job! I liked hearing from your relatives. It wasn't really clear what Mama Chila's role was when she was first mentioned and I feel she should be mentioned earlier on. Really good though!

Re: The book has been released

Meward44 — Wed, 23 Nov 2011 19:52:21 -0000

Hi Derek,

So glad to know that the book is meaningful to you personally. It was a labor of loveon my part, bt I cou;d not have written it without the help of all the family members. It means a lot to me to know that other adoptees like you are reading it. It is nice that your name is the same as Nelson's brother. Also the man who did the design work for the cover at the press has the same name Derek. Nice! Best to you, Margaret

Re: The book has been released

Nelson/Roberto — Mon, 21 Nov 2011 15:55:49 -0000

Derek,

Great to gear from you again. I’m glad you are enjoying the book. If there is anything I can help you with please let me know.

PS You may have noticed by now but you spell your name the same way as my brother!

All the best

Re: The book has been released

Derek — Mon, 21 Nov 2011 14:23:43 -0000

Just started reading the book. It's so touching and gives me insight on my own adoption from El Salvador. It brings up a lot of emotions and questions I have about my own adoption. As I am reading I can relate to some of your emmotions and feelings growing up as an adoptee. Your family did an amazing job on the book.

Re: My picture in a 1982 Honduran newspaper

Nfs2ghost — Fri, 18 Nov 2011 14:08:20 -0000

Hello Nelson my name is Carlos. And I was adopted from Honduras in 1984 from an orphanage which one I don't know but the only thing I know is that I was born in San Pedro Sula, do you know of this place and the name of the orphanage you stayed in. I'm trying to find my brothers and sisters haven't seen them since 1982. By the way my last name before I came to America was Hernandez. Contact me through email nfs2ghost@yahoo.com..

Re: Identifying Nelson/Buscando a Roberto

Nelson/Roberto — Mon, 07 Nov 2011 17:09:02 -0000

Thank you so much. I'll look into it.

Re: Identifying Nelson/Buscando a Roberto

Miamigringa — Mon, 07 Nov 2011 09:50:55 -0000

I can't tell you how excited I am about your documentary. I work in Guatemala and my colleagues and I have been saying for years now that there are children in the U.S. whose families are looking for them. I would interview Dr. Karen Rotabi at VCU for your film.

Re: The book has been released

Johnfyounger — Tue, 04 Oct 2011 01:22:29 -0000

Congratulations! Can't wait to read it.

Re: A Waiting Game

Derek — Sat, 07 May 2011 16:37:38 -0000

I can't wait. Like Nelson I am also adopted, and I am waiting to hear back form Pro-Busqueda

Re: Derek’s First Post

Dl Ciel 07 — Thu, 05 May 2011 10:37:53 -0000

You really are my cousin too :)

Re: Stuck between worlds, hoping I never have to choose.

Nelson/Roberto — Thu, 24 Mar 2011 08:35:21 -0000

Thanks Lorie. :)

Re: Stuck between worlds, hoping I never have to choose.

Loriemayberry — Thu, 24 Mar 2011 00:56:17 -0000

very moving post Nelson. enjoyed.

Re: Growing Up Without Culture

Nelson/Roberto — Wed, 19 Jan 2011 21:17:21 -0000

Well in central america most people wear jeans instead of shorts. I started wearing only jeans. This helped me fit in and not look like an american. To this day I primarily wear jeans even during the Boston summer.

Re: Growing Up Without Culture

Val Dalto — Wed, 19 Jan 2011 17:00:15 -0000

Thank for your answer. I was not adopted but I never felt like i fit either. I suppose that alienation is a universal human theme. One book I find helpful is "Bartleby the Scrivner, A Story of Wall Street" by Herman Melville.
One more qustion...How did you dress when you say you were copying the way they dress in Central America ?

Re: Growing Up Without Culture

Nelson/Roberto — Wed, 19 Jan 2011 11:02:48 -0000

I think you raised a good point. The way I define culture is this:

People belong to groups or tribes. Culture is the way a tribe expresses itself. That could be art, language, dance, dress, etc.

While I grew up experiencing many different cultures I was never part of a tribe. I searched for ways to fit in but was never completely accepted by any of them. This gave me the freedom to explore other cultures and ideas because I wasn't afraid to be an outsider.

Hope that helps.

Re: Growing Up Without Culture

Val Dalto — Tue, 18 Jan 2011 13:22:01 -0000

I'm not sure I follow what you are trying to say with this post. Could you please tell me how you define "culture" ?

Re: Return to El Salvador: Visiting Mariano

Nelson/Roberto — Mon, 03 Jan 2011 15:16:13 -0000

Robert,

Thank you for your comment! Its my pleasure sharing my experiences! Thank
you for reading them.

I am planning to get the Boston group going again this year. I think we need
some extra help keeping it going. I am trying to figure out what is the best
way to do this.

I hope all is well with you and that you had a happy new year.

All the Best,
Nelson

Re: Return to El Salvador: Visiting Mariano

Rmcandrews — Fri, 31 Dec 2010 16:07:46 -0000

Nelson,
Thank you for all your insightful commentaries and for sharing your experiences with your many friends. Wishing you and your big family a healthy and peaceful New Year. I hope we can get our Boston group together very soon for a meal and conversation. Take care, Rob

Re: Cars, Giving, Salt Mines, and Space Suits: Four #140conf Moments You May Have Missed

Nelson/Roberto — Mon, 08 Nov 2010 15:02:34 -0000

Becky thank you for having me! It was great seeing the midwest. Until this year I had never been west of the mississippi. Hutchinson was an amazing place. Thanks for showing us city folk what small town hospitality is all about!

Re: Cars, Giving, Salt Mines, and Space Suits: Four #140conf Moments You May Have Missed

Becky McCray — Sat, 06 Nov 2010 20:52:53 -0000

Nelson, I'm so glad you shared your story both places, and I'm especially proud you shared your story in Hutchison. You touch so many lives every time you do. It was a special honor to get to spend some time with you before and after the event. I hope you enjoyed your look into the smalltown world of Kansas.

Re: Finding a Tribe: Why Do You Like Our Story?

Nelson/Roberto — Thu, 22 Jul 2010 17:06:39 -0000

Nadine, Thanks so much for your input. I'm glad you like the work I'm doing.
I'm sure you are right. I will find my niche soon!